times.
Reward her for following your commands by holding her closely and sharing emotional intimacy with her. Then touch your finger onto her ejaculate and touch it to your tongue and say: “See, it is female ejaculate!” This demonstrates that you welcome her ejaculate.
Ask her if she has to pee now, like she usually does after sex. If she really did follow your commands to push it out, she will not have to pee.
Ask her if the orgasm was different. If she really did follow your commands to push it out, she will have probably noticed the feeling of her ejaculate pulsing out of her urethra.
That’s enough for the first night. Cap things off with some close love making and emotional intimacy.
Now for the next step. Have her build up her PC muscles. The PC muscles are the pelvic floor muscles that connect from the pubic bone to the tail bone.
You know those muscles as the muscles you contract to stop a steam of urine midstream. She also knows them as that, but she also knows them as the muscles she can contract to clamp her vagina down on your penis.
Kegel exercises
The PC muscles are strengthened by doing Kegel exercises. Strong healthy PC muscles are synonymous with a healthy vibrant sex life.
See the chapter near the end of this program called “Kegel exercises” for details on performing them. After just two weeks there will be a noticeable improvement.
Diagram of PC muscles
Her Kegel exercising will dramatically increase her squirtage. That is, IF she is following your commands to push.
Each time you two get into bed, be sure to tell her that you welcome her ejaculation. It is critically important that she understands that you believe it is sexy and normal and natural. You must reassure her in order to override her own self consciousness.
To set things up for maximum squirtage, start with much foreplay and emotional bonding. Then say to her “Baby, tonight I want you to come so fucking hard that it soaks my bed! That will make me so excited.” Then when she comes, encourage her further with: “Yes Baby! Come hard!” Then accept her ejaculate as sexy and natural.
Your woman will certainly find that her orgasms are more powerful when she ejaculates.
After she is able to squirt from deep spot stimulation, you may find that she can squirt from clitoral stimulation and from intercourse. In reality, it has less to do with what gets massaged, but everything to do with her willingness to just let go and let it happen and push out.
And of course, it has to do with her willingness to do her Kegel exercises. If she stops doing her Kegels, her regular squirting will subside.
For further reference, you absolutely must have the book "The G Spot and Other Discoveries About Human Sexuality" by Ladas, Whipple, and Perry. Copyright 1982. ISBN 0-440-13040-9. It has an entire chapter on female ejaculation, which is very informative. It also has chapters on the PC muscles and other good stuff.
Anal Sex
One of the most exciting things for a man is to fuck his woman up the ass. It is raunchy, it is taboo, it is animalistic, and it is one of the major demonstrations that his woman is ruthlessly sexually expressive.
For a woman, it can be one of the naughtiest things she can do.
And thus, it can be exciting as hell.
Interestingly, it results in the deepest and most powerful orgasm she can experience. The anal orgasm is like no other.
Some women would never ever do anal, no matter what. Other women would jump on the opportunity. But for most women, they are sitting on the fence and just need a little “gentle loving inducement.”
Note: This can ONLY be done for a woman who is already vaginally orgasmic AND multiply orgasmic. Take care of those things first.
Also, finger nails must be highly polished and very short.
And, as always, build the trust, intimacy, and remind her that everything is normal and natural.
The important thing to remember is that once she states her objection to the act, it makes it