standing beside her bed, a huge smile on his face. He was flabbergasted when he saw the silent tears roll down her cheeks. âWas it very hard?â he asked kindly.
âOh, Shlomie, itâs not that! Thereâs something horribly wrong with her! I just know it! And itâs all my fault.â
âNo, no. The doctor said she was perfect. Eight pounds six ounces. A beautiful little girl. You did a great job.â
She shook her head in despair. âSheâs wrinkled and ugly! Weâre never going to marry her off!â
He threw back his head and laughed. âYou just need rest, Daniella. Youâll feel better tomorrow. The doctors want me to go now.â
âNo, Shlomie, donât go!â She reached out for him, holding his arm.
Gently, he pried himself loose. Religious law forbade physical contact between a husband and wife after childbirth until the bleeding stopped and the woman could immerse herself in the ritual bath for spiritual purification. It was a stricture that no one could really explain.
âI donât understand that. Why should bringing forth a new life make a woman impure? Itâs the holiest thing a woman can do, isnât it?â she asked him.
He shrugged. He knew no more than she did. âSome say itâs because of all the curses a wife lobs at her husband during labor.â He smiled, showing her he wasnât serious.
She found herself weeping softly, the whole experience overwhelming in its unfamiliarity, its shocking immodesty and pain. It was like nothing she could have imagined. Raw, animalistic, the opposite of the lofty spiritual experience sheâd led herself to expect. She hurt all over.
She spent a fitful night trying to find a comfortable position, taking forever to turn slowly from one side to the next, afraid each small shift would evoke the knife-like, stabbing pain where theyâd stitched her up. In the morning, she was exhausted.
Shlomie came at eight, bringing a small bunch of flowers.
âDid you see her?â she demanded.
He smiled. âI went to the nursery and I looked into the window at all the babies. And I focused on this one baby. It was so healthy looking, with such a full head of black hair, and it was laying there, kicking its little feet and waving its arms but not crying. Just looking around at the world. And I thought: What a perfect baby! Then the nurse came over and asked me my name. When I told her, she went over and picked it upâthe very baby I was looking at!âand said, âThis is yours.â God be blessed!â
She saw his smile, so genuine and heartfelt, as the tears streamed down his cheeks. And she thought: I can do this. Be married to this man. Have his children. It was all right then, the baby, her husband, her marriage. God had not punished her. He had blessed her. Because He was kind. He was compassionate.
âDonât cry,â she told him softly. âDonât cry.â
They named her Amalya, because it sounded so Israeli, and they wanted an Israeli child. Soon after Amalyaâs first birthday, Daniella found herself pregnant again. Busy raising her little daughter, the pregnancy went amazingly quickly. But three months before her child was born, Shlomie lost his job.
âChabad is sending someone down from New York.â He shrugged. âThey say theyâll give me a good reference.â
But with the economy, no one was hiring. She had no choice but to turn to her mother.
âDo I look like an ATM?â Claire shouted. âBut Iâll tell you what I will do. I will offer that husband of yours a job in the business. He can earn a salary.â
âYou want him to sell jewelry?â Daniella asked, aghast.
âNo. Heâd be useless at that. But he can do deliveries.â
Shlomie agreed, but after a month, the number of parking tickets he accumulated was more than his salary.
âHeâs useless,â her mother