Free 50 Shades of Kink by Tristan Taormino

muscles around the balls to intensify the sensation. You could also use an insertable vibrator or a dildo to combine penetration with a rhythmic spanking. As the spanking progresses, the toy will move inside her (or you can move it for her), delivering double the pleasure.
    You can also spank or slap the genitals, but start out very gently. The tissue of the vulva and penis are much less fleshy than other parts and a lot more sensitive. To spank a vulva, put your hand up, fingers together facing the vulva. Start with light taps, and see how she responds. For some women, this will simply be too intense, but for others, especially once they are aroused, it can be both exciting and stimulating. Try concentrating on the pubic mound and above the clitoral hood; or, spank over the hood directly. In between slaps and taps, use your fingers to stroke her labia and clitoris. Talk to her, pay attention to her body language, and only escalate your spanks when you know she’s enjoying it. To spank a penis, hold the shaft with one hand and slap with the other. Try light taps on the head and see how he responds. You can increase the speed and strength of the slaps if he’s into it.

Paddles, Slappers, and Crops
    You’d be surprised at just how much impact you can have with your own bare hand, but using toys for spanking and slapping is lots of fun, too.

    As a general rule, when spanking or slapping someone with a toy, you want to concentrate on fleshy areas of the body like the ass cheeks, the back of the thighs, the inner thighs, and the back. The chest can also be slapped as well as the breasts, but extra care should be taken with the breasts—don’t use anything too heavy. And again, always avoid bones, joints, and organs (be especially careful of the tailbone and the kidneys when slapping someone’s back or butt).
    Look no further than your own house for some great DIY spanking toys—like wooden spoons, spatulas, hairbrushes, or rulers. All of these tools provide different materials and different sensation possibilities. Make sure you try out a DIY toy on yourself to get a sense of what kind of smack it produces, how much force you need to use, and what it feels like.
    You can purchase a range of spanking toys—like paddles, slappers, and crops—at sex toy and BDSM stores and websites. Most of these tools can produce a light sensation or a heavy, painful one depending on how much force is behind it.
    Most paddles have a broad round or oval striking part and a short handle. Paddles are made of leather, vinyl, rubber, wood, acrylic, and other materials—generally the harder the material, the more intense the sensation it can produce. They come in a variety of colors, and some feature one side made of leather or wood and the other side covered in faux (or real) fur. This double-sided paddle is delightful, since you have both soft and hard in one toy. You can begin with strokes of fur, move on to taps, slaps, and smacks of leather, then alternate
between the two. A firm slap of leather against the flesh followed by the soothing rub of sensual fur feels amazing. Some paddles feature stars, hearts, or other shapes on them. The idea behind these is that the better you get with your aim and the more consistent your smacks are, the more likely the shape will create an imprint in your bottom’s butt cheeks (or elsewhere). This way, they can have an artistic reminder of the spanking.
    Crops are long rods with a small flat loop or a solid piece of leather on the end. The end piece is the part you slap with, which means that of paddles, slappers, and crops, crops have the smallest slapping area. Because of their design, crops can be used more effectively on smaller areas that a paddle may be too big for—like breasts, nipples, vulvas, or the place where the inner thigh meets the pubic area. As with other tools, start out slowly with light taps, and increase the intensity as your partner responds.