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recognition and respect.
    If the psychic preparation of the bride is incomplete, all attemps at rupture of the hymen must be deferred. The man should not begin his marriage with a rape. The woman’s loss of blood from the small tears in the hymen is usually slight and soon ceases. But in exceptional cases it lasts longer and is profuse. The bride should then lie still on her back with closed legs and avoid all contact with the wound. The bleeding will stop itself. Do not dab or wipe.
    At the time of intercourse if the bride does not attain full lubricant secretion to make the passage of the penis easy, an artificial lubricant should be used and applied directly to the vulva. She should be gently explained that it is meant to avoid hurting her. Then she will readily permit this, and the suggestion of consideration and care will appeal to her.
    If the wife is ignorant, she must be taught, not only how to behave in coitus, but how and what to feel in this unique act; the beginning of married life is a school and an apprenticeship for her and the teacher is none other than her husband.
    Sexual Awakening
    The woman’s sexual awakening must be gradual. It must advance step by step. The variation of attitude and positions are advanced instruction and belong to later stage.
    Sexual harmony in activity is a real psychic panacea. It develops all the latent strength and sweetness of a woman’s character, ripens her judgement, gives her serenity and poise.
    When the woman has regular intercourse wherein full absorption of the semen takes place, the woman shows improved general and mammary development. Each such satisfactory erotic experience revives and refreshes the healthy woman throughout her soul and body.
    The amount of stimulation a woman is able to receive and relief she is able to experience, depends upon her constitution, her temperament, her state of health, her psychic attitude especially on other causes of fatigue and finally on general extraneous conditions.
    The sexual vigour, efficiency of the healthy, erotically awakened woman is very great, greater indeed than the potency of the average man.
    Genital Classification
    The Hindu treatises Kama Sutra and Ananga Ranga have given the following genital classification.
    The three types of penises (Ungarn) are:
i . The hare type upto 13 cm long when fully erect.
ii . The bull type upto 18 cm long when fully erect.
iii . The donkey type upto 25 cm long when fully erect.
    The three types of vagina (Yoni) are:
i . The deer type upto 13 cm deep.
ii . The mare type upto 18 cm deep.
iii . The elephant type upto 25 cm deep.
    Types of Females
    Indian love manuals mainly describe four female types:
i . The heavenly lotus woman is beautiful, soft, and full breasted and likes to make love in the daytime. They are known as Padmini .
ii . The artistic type woman is called Chakrani . She is also heavenly, beautiful and full breasted. She is proficient in the 64 arts and like to make love at night.
iii . The conch woman Shankhni emanates from the earthly rather than the heavenly realm. She has a large body but small breasts and is subject to sudden fits of amorous passion.
iv . The elephant type Hastini woman is short, stout, and slow in movement and likes prolonged love making under any and all circumstances.
    Hot Spots in Women
    Sexually sensitive areas are called Hot Spots. Every man should know the names of hot spots in women.
    The breast
    There are women whose nipples are so sensitive that they can reach orgasm when their nipples are merely caressed. Many women need simultaneous breast stimulation during the height of climatic sensation. But don’t pinch or squeeze. Ask her how she likes her nipples stimulated and her breasts touched.
    The pubic area
    This area is also called The Mons and is soft and cushiony. This refers to the outside frontal part of the genitalia that is visible when a woman is in the nude.
    The clitoris
    The clitoris is important as a trigger in arousal and as a