Proper oxygen
intake always makes a person process better.
I almost hesitate to return to our earlier
discussion, but why are you worried
about losing Hayden? You obviously
care very much about her. Do you not
think she feels the same way about you?
She sits patiently while I consider
the straightforward question. “I do,
at least most of the time. But lately
we seem to argue a lot, and since I know
you’ll ask, over ludicrous stuff like jealousy.”
The Soft Chime
Of an alarm means our session
is technically over. Technically,
because Martha refuses to honor
alarms. She shuffles in her seat.
Our time’s up, I know, but
I can’t let you go without
saying that jealousy is far
from being ludicrous.
It’s the impetus for many
bad things, including breakups.
And now we slip into a short,
terse-because-we’re-already-
running-a-few-minutes-late Q & A.
Q: Who’s jealous? You or her?
A: “Both of us, actually.”
Q: Are the reasons real or imagined?
I almost say hers are invented,
mine one hundred percent spot-on,
but that even sounds warped to me. So,
A: “I really wish I knew.”
Beyond the Inner Sanctum Door
There is noise in the waiting room.
Martha’s next victim is also running
a little late, which gives Martha
the leeway to add, Well, since I can’t
talk to Hayden, you’ll have to do it. Open
up. Tell her what’s bothering you,
without accusation. Discourse is a two-way
street, though. Be sure to ask what’s on
her mind, and listen without comment
until she’s finished. Communication
is the key to success in any relationship,
but you have to be forthright. Love is a fragile
thing, easily destroyed by dishonesty.
Just remember to be honest with yourself
first. Otherwise, there’s really no point.
She smiles at my obvious eye roll, stands
to let me know I have been dismissed.
All right, then. Go forth. Cause no mayhem.
Decent Session
I leave, feeling marginally better
about myself, Hayden, even my lack
of friends. They were nothing
but deserters, and who needs
traitorous pals blurring the focus
of your life? Perspective. That’s exactly
what I needed today, and Martha is great
at allowing me a broader view without
accusing me of being a freak for not
having it in the first place. She’s okay.
I wish Mom would talk to her instead
of bending her pastor’s ear, expecting
the dude to be a human conduit to
the Great Therapist in the Sky. But
my parents seem to believe therapy
is only useful when you’re young
and not quite over your brother’s
suicide. What about the self-inflicted
death of your favorite son? At least,
your favorite until it turns out he’s gay.
I Almost Call Martha Myself
When I get home and find Mom well
on her way to an alcohol-fueled meltdown,
instead of busting her butt not selling real
estate due to the economy. She’s in the den,
knees tucked beneath her on the window
seat, and the gentle light through the glass
does nothing to soften the blotchiness
of her face. She’s been crying for a while.
“What’s wrong?” I ask, certain
I don’t want to hear her answer
or jump into this conversation.
Too late. He. Wants. To leave. Me,
Matthew. Tobacco spices her breath,
and gin punctuates the sentence.
“Dad?” Ridiculous question, like,
duh, she means Dad. “Did he say so?”
She coughs up a laugh. He never
says anything, does he? Not even
when Luke . . . Fresh tears splash
from her eyes. No, he hasn’t said
so yet. But he will. And I don’t know
what I’ll do when he finally finds
the guts to tell me that’s what he wants.
What Would Martha Say?
I draw from today’s session, put on
my best therapist face. “I have no idea
exactly what brought this on, but just
today I was informed by an expert that
communication is the key to every
relationship. Why don’t you just ask
him if that’s what he’s got on his mind?
I mean, there’s no use stressing over
something that may not happen at all.
And even if that is
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