babyâs in your arms.
But to a woman, James, to a woman,
itâs a different story.
She cried,
oh, Jesus, did she cry.
And all I could do was hold her.
I watched her fall apart.
She was so sad
and I felt like it was all my fault.
If it wasnât for me, she wouldnât have been pregnant.
There wouldnât have been a baby to lose.
A long time went by
and eventually she told me
that if Iâd stopped holding her
she wouldâve wanted to die.
No matter whatâs happened with this girl, James,
she needs you.
She needs you to be there for her.
She needs you to hold her.
Itâs time for you
to be a man.
A real man.
Watching
When James/Jim goes away,
his dad thinks about
the funny business
of raising kids.
Teaching them how to
walk,
talk,
and a million other things.
Watching over them like a hawk,
jumping in to save the day.
To reassure and make it right.
Then â
when they get a little older,
all youâre allowed to do is
watch.
Watch them do stupid things and
dye their hair funny colours and tattoo their bodies and
drive recklessly and sneak out of the house and
drink when they donât think youâll catch them
and do all sorts of stupid stuff and
all you can do is
watch.
Because youâve gotta let them go,
sooner or later,
youâve just gotta let go
and hope you did okay.
Jim/spin me right round
My head is spinning
with everything thatâs happened today
and itâs only ten in the morning.
Char has cracked up
(more than usual).
Dad knows about Char and me
(everything that happened)
and Mum and Dad lost a baby years before I was born
(and I never had a clue).
Thereâs no way I can go to school today,
not with a head like this.
Why is it that everything always happens all at once?
Â
I head to the beach
and watch the waves for a while
before peeling off my shirt, my shoes, my watch.
I dive in,
into the icy water
and gasp.
When I emerge,
I feel
renewed.
Char/waking
I wake.
A combination of dried snot and tears on my face,
perpetual knot in my stomach,
sheets tangled around me.
For a second,
itâs peaceful.
Then I remember.
Their little girl
I can hear my parents fighting again,
and this time,
I know for sure what itâs about.
Theyâre blaming each other
for me being like this
even though itâs no oneâs fault but my own.
I stand at the top of the stairs,
watching them fight.
âShut up you two! Just shut the fuck up!â
Iâve never sworn at my parents before,
and I didnât mean to even speak.
They stop fighting, and look at me,
astounded.
My knees crumple
and I sit on the stairs,
sobbing like a little girl.
I canât remember the last time I cried in front of
my parents.
Dressing for battle
I have to wear jeans to the shrinkâs.
Mum and Dad wonât let me have the razor in the shower to
shave my legs,
in case I off myself, I suppose.
Mum says sheâll stand in the bathroom and watch,
if I want.
No way!
Iâd rather be hairy.
Looking crazy
In the waiting room,
I look around suspiciously,
looking for crazy people.
Thereâs only two other people in the room,
apart from the receptionist.
A man in his forties who blinks a lot
and a girl about my age
wearing a T-shirt that says,
Keep staring â I might do a trick .
I have the feeling that I would get on well with her,
but weâre not exactly at the school social.
Botox and jeans
The door opens eventually
and a woman who doesnât look that much older than me
steps out and calls my name.
This must be the shrink, I guess.
I put on my mask
of composure and happiness
and follow her into the room.
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She tells me her name is Vivian,
which matches the name on the certificates on the wall.
This woman mustâve had Botox
because thereâs no way someone who looks that young
can have done that much studying.
Botox for sure.
And sheâs