Iâm sorry.â
âItâs not that,â he assured her quickly. âItâs just that youâ I donât know, you had a funny look on your face for a minute.â
âDid I?â His perceptiveness surprisedâand slightly unnervedâher. âI guess I was wondering if maybe Iâd overstepped my bounds, asking about your marriage,âshe hedged, reluctant to reveal the personal insight that had just flashed through her mind. âItâs just that talking to you about Jack and my faith helped tonight. I thought maybe it might help you to talk, too. But I understand if youâd rather not.â
He looked at her for a moment before he spoke, as if assessing whether her interest was real or just polite. âActually, I havenât talked much about it to anyone. Except my minister. Maybe because there isnât a whole lot to say. And because it still hurts after all these years. And because itâs hard to admit failure,â he confessed candidly. âBut Iâll give you the highlightsâor low-lights, depending on your perspectiveâif youâre really interested.â
âI am.â
He gave a slight nod. âCindy and I met when I was in medical school,â he began. âShe was blond and beautiful, carefree and fun, always ready for the next adventure. I was the serious, studious type and it was exciting just to be with her. I never knew what sheâd do next. All I knew was that she added a whole new dimension to my life. As different as we were, something clicked between us and I proposed a year after we met. We got married a few months later.â
âSounds like a promising beginning,â Kate ventured.
âYeah. Except things just went downhill from there. She didnât like my choice of specialty, and she grew to resent the intrusion of my career on our personal lives. We both changed through the yearsâor maybe we just became more of what weâd always been. In any case, the differences we once found so appealing gradually became irritating and hurtful. In the end, we were barely speaking.â
He paused and looked down at his iced tea. The drops of condensation on his glass reminded him of tears, and he suddenly felt sad. âTo be honest, I donât think either of us was blameless in the breakup, but I feel most responsible,â he said heavily. âCindy was right about my careerâit takes an inordinate amount of my time. And it was a self-perpetuating kind of thing. As our marriage disintegrated, I spent even more time in the office and at the hospital, which only made matters worse. I donât knowâ¦. Maybe she would have been more tolerant of my schedule if Iâd been doing heart transplants or something.â
Kate frowned. âWhat do you mean?â
âCindy wanted me to be a surgeon. Thatâs considered one of the more âglamorousâ specialties. And when we got married, I thought I wanted to do that, too. But eventually I realized that I didnât enjoy practicing medicine in that sterile environment. I wanted to interact with people. And I love kids. Pediatrics was a natural fit for me. But Cindy hated it. It didnât have enough prestige. She was bitterly disappointed in my choiceâand in me. Over time, our relationship grew strained and distant, and in the end it just fell apart.â Eric didnât tell Kate about the final hurtâthe reason heâd finally agreed to the divorce. Even now, five years later, it made him feel physically ill to think about it.
Impulsively Kate reached out and touched his hand. âIâm sorry, Eric.â
Startled, he dropped his gaze to her slender fingers lightly resting on his sun-browned hand. It was funny. He couldnât remember a single time during his entire relationship with Cindy when sheâd touched him in quite this way, with such heartfelt empathy and simplehuman caring. His throat tightened,