onto the bed and applied my lotion.
Finally, in a comfortable pair of sweats and a tank, I headed downstairs to pour myself a glass of chilled wine and catch up on my recorded episodes of Scandal . I had missed the entire season and for weeks had waited for a quiet evening alone to watch the episodes. Snuggled on the sofa in my family room, I was enjoying the series and the peace and quiet. On my third episode and my second glass of wine, I got a text alert.
Meet me for 1 drink pls. I really need 2 c u.
I studied the message for a few moments before I replied. No .
I wonât get u into any trouble. Pls, Andrea.
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No!
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What can I do 2 chg ur mind?
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Absolutely nothing.
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Why r u treating me so cold? Can we at least b friends? We were close once .
We were .
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I miss that.
I wanted to say that I did too, but I didnât. So y do u wanna c me so bad? R u dying or something? LOL .
No Iâm not dying, LOL. U prob wish that I was.
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No I donât. I donât hate u, Q.
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Thatâs comforting 2 no .
LOL. I couldnât hate u even if I tried . I wondered how I had just that quickly allowed him to engage me in this sneaky conversation.
Same here. Just one drink, Andrea. I really want 2 c u.
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I canât.
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Y not?
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It wouldnât be wise.
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Y wouldnât it be? Itâs me, Andrea, not some stranger.
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B/c Iâm married.
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And if u r happily married, seeing me shouldnât have any effect on your marriage. We are old friends.
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No, we are ex-lovers.
That 2, but we grew up together. We were friends before we dated, remember?
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Yes I do.
I smiled to myself. I did miss that bond weâd shared, how he used to always make me laugh and smile, and how heâd keep me company in the kitchen while I tried to cook in our first apartment. Even if I burned something or if it didnât turn out right, he would find a way to make a joke about it so I wouldnât feel so bad.
It was wrong, and I knew I should have ended the conversation right then, but I keyed in a response. Ok, where do u want 2 meet?
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Andrea, serious? U r not playing wit me?
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Serious. U r right. We were close once n meeting u 4 a drink canât taint my marriage.
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U r right.
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There is a place not too far from my salon on Wabash called M Lounge.
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Yes, Iâm familiar. I can meet you.
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In about an hour?
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Iâll b there.
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I got up from the sofa and went up to my bedroom, wondering if I should back out. Seeing Quentin was harmless, but how long would that last? He was my first love, and although I had married Jeremiah for love, the love I had for him wasnât as deep as the love I had for Quentin.
Jeremiah was always serious and uptight. Yes, we had shared some good times. Iâd be lying if I said we didnât. But we had never shared any romantic times. My husband wasnât cruel, but he was far from sweet. No holding hands, no kisses, just because . . . or hardly ever, anyway. He would go out of town for ministry work and would not call me for a couple of days, as if he hadnât left his family back in a completely different state. He threw a bigger celebration for the church anniversary than heâd ever done for our anniversary, and six months after heâd initially stopped touching me, Iâd woken up wishing I hadnât committed myself to him. When he stopped coming up to our bed and slowly began moving his items into the guest bedroom, Iâd visited the divorce subject, but heâd put a lid on that topic quickly, saying, âFolks who follow God donât divorce.â
I still scratched my head at that. To remain in a situation that brought unhappiness was just plain stupid, but there I was a little over two years later, still in an unfulfilling marriage with someone who had become a stranger to me. Yes, there was a stranger in my house, a man impersonating my