something I have to do rather than something I want to do. I donât enjoy it anymore.â
âLike what I feel for Simon,â Kate said thoughtfully.
âBut you want to be a doctor, and thatâs a kind of love also.â Mary wanted to change the subject.
Kate shook her head. Then she said, âYou want to know why Simonâs proposal made me sad?â
âWhy?â
âI think Simon loves me. Heâs attracted to me and wants to take care of me and I donât doubt that heâd be by my side forever. Thatâs just the way he is. I knew all that back when we first started dating, but Iâve never felt the way he does. Today I felt like I used him and strung him along because having a boyfriend meant I could get out of the house and do things that Father wouldnât let me do otherwise.â
Mary wondered if Kate and Simon had ever made love. She didnât think it was right to make love to someone before marriage, and she couldnât imagine Kate making love to Simon, after what she had just said, but she wanted to ask, even if it was none of her business. âKate . . .â Mary started to say.
Kate seemed to have read her mind. âToday he complained â I guess you can call it complaining â about not being intimate, you know, physical. Weâve never made love because I never felt that kind of love for him.â Mary felt relieved. âItâs a mess,â Kate continued. âI donât know what Iâve been doing or what Iâm going to do. Do I love Simon enough to marry him and hope the rest comes later? Is what we have a form of love? If it is, then isnât marrying him the best thing? The âbest for all,â as he put it? And even if it isnât love, thereâs no doubt that marrying him is the best thing for all of us . . . in a way. Weâd be taken care of.â
âYou need to stick with your plan,â Mary said, trying to sound comforting. âYou need to go to UTEP and be a doctor. With the one hundred thousand dollars from the insurance, we can get Talita or someone to take care of Mama while Iâm in school. I donât see anything wrong with you going out with Simon these past two years. It wasnât like you led him on. You never made any promises or told him things you didnât feel, did you? He knows about your plans?â
âYes.â
âWhat does he say about you going to UTEP?â
There was silence.
âKate, are you all right? Whatâs the matter?â
âNothing, I was just thinking. About . . . UTEP.â
âWhat?â
âNothing. I need to go to sleep now, Mary. Itâs been a l ong day .â
âIs there something you want to tell me? Tell me.â
âNo, thereâs nothing else. Good night.â
Mary paused, took a deep breath. âOkay. Good night.â
Mary shifted in the bed and lay her head on the pillow. Why did Kate pull back all of a sudden? It had happened so many times. Just as they began to get close, Kate retreated. It was as if Kate was afraid to be her sister, the way sisters are meant to be. Mary raised her hand and touched her cheek. She remembered the time in their backyard when Kate had dabbed her face with paint.
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K ate lay awake, thinking about Maryâs questions. Did she love Simon? How would she ever know? What did it feel like to love someone? What should she do about college, about marriage, about Mary?
She hugged herself, wishing it was Motherâs arms around her. I need you , she said softly to herself.
Kate stayed home from school the following morning and filled out the paperwork for the insurance company. When she studied the insurance policy, she was surprised to see th at sh e was listed as the sole beneficiary. Her father had taken out the policy ten years before, so it was strange but fortunate that he had not listed Mother as well, because there might have been problems collecting