whimpering something and I can finally hear what sheâs saying.
âDonât let the children see . . . donât let the children see . . . donât let the children see,â she repeats indistinctly.
âSilence! Theyâll see. Theyâre going to see what youâre worth. Theyâre going to see who their mother really is underneath this robe. Theyâll learn how a bitch like you should be treated.â
He pulls at her clothes and finally gets her garter belt to slide up until it sits like a belt around her belly while her blouse is inside out, covering her face and head. The words are still streaming out of her mouth, sheâs half-crying and her voice is shrill and we hear her repeat:
âDonât let the children see . . . donât let the children see . . . donât let the children see . . .â
She struggles and fights back in a way weâve never seen her do when Dad has hit her. But this is different. Heâs never undressed her before, and now he also begins to whip her with the carpet beater, on her legs, wherever he can reach.
âNow shut up and be still, or Iâll tie you up the way you bind a sow,â he pants between the blows.
Then he forces her onto her stomach and I hear her sob and cry while the carpet beater hits her buttocks and thighs.
My youngest sister, who was only about one at this time, comes crying from the bedroom. She totters over to my sister and curls up next to her. This makes Dad pause for a moment.
âTurn off the ceiling light,â he orders. âTurn off all the lights!â
We do as he says. At once, the small apartment is filled with darkness and suddenly everyoneâs breathing can be heard. Our shallow, terrified breathing, my little sisterâs sobs, Momâs soundless tears, and above all and over everything else, Dadâs panting, growing deeper. He has stopped beating her and in the dimness he and Mom look like one body there on the couch.
âWhat is Daddy doing now?â one of my brothers asks when the sounds and movements from the couch turn increasingly strange.
âHush, hush,â I tell him, and my sister gets him to stay quiet. After this, the five of us sit motionless in the dark, letting everything happen. I join my hands as in prayer, but theyâre cramping and I canât pray; my heart feels paralyzed and Iâm afraid of everything I donât understand. Let it end, is all I can think. Let it end.
Dad groans. He groans again, louder. Then everything grows silent. Completely silent. Itâs as if everything thatâs alive has suddenly escaped from the apartment, as if nothing were left but the darkness and the occasional sounds from outside; a car starting, a door slamming, the sound ofsteps against asphalt.
Eventually, we hear Dad getting up and straightening his clothes. His white underwear glints like the sliver of a moon through the darkness. He clears his throat.
âYou can turn the lights back on,â he says in a calm and steady voice. âThe husband has fulfilled his duty. The degenerate sow got what she deserved.â
The room turns blindingly bright. Mom tries to pull her top back down with one hand, while the other gropes around her as if sheâs searching for something. My older sister rushes toward the muumuu that has ended up on the floor, but Dad grabs her wrist and stops her from giving it to Mom.
âBehold your mother,â he says, and gestures dramatically at her where she sits half-naked on the couch.
After this, he forces us to get in line and go up to him one after the other and kiss him good night on the lips and say:
âGood night, Father dear.â
Right before he leaves us, he slams his heels together and bursts out:
âOrder has been established.â
But Momâs gaze moves straight through the walls. It rises from her beaten, black and blue swollen face and the room explodes.
February 11
One day when I
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