Free Being a Boy by James Dawson Page A

sex, digital stimulation of both the penis and prostate gland up the bum and anal sex all FEEL NICE.
    WOMAN ON WOMAN: Two women can do lots of things that FEEL NICE. Oral sex, digital stimulation of both the clitoris and G-spot and anal sex, stroking the ears, lips, neck and so on. Two women may use sex toys such as vibrators and dildos for penetrative sex.
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    Common Misconceptions 101
    In same-sex relationships one partner is ‘the man’ and one is ‘the woman’. This is nonsense. It’s either two men or two women. That’s sort of the whole point, duh.
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    It should be pretty clear that same-sex sex is VERY like mixed-sex sex. There are so many incredibly dumb rumours about same sex couples but a lot of it is our fault, by that I mean grown-ups, TV and school, for not telling you the whole truth. More or less, human beings are like little Lego bricks – we all click together quite neatly – male or female.
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    Baby Talk
    Two men can adopt a child or use a surrogate to have a baby. Two women can also adopt a child, use a surrogate or have a fertilised egg implanted in one partner’s uterus in a process called ‘in-vitro fertilisation’, or IVF, if they want to be parents. But biologically, same-sex partners cannot conceive a child by having sex.
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS FROM ACTUAL YOUNG PEOPLE:
WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE SEX IF THEY DON’T WANT BABIES?:
    A very common question. The answer is because IT FEELS NICE. You know how eating cake is pleasurable? So is sex. You should probably aim to have sex as much as you eat cake – often, but not so often you make yourself sick.
WHY DO GIRLS USE VIBRATORS?
    You know how wanking feels good for boys? Well it also feels good for girls. A vibrator is a battery or mains operated device that feels nice for girls. It is used to stimulate their clitoris and, possibly the G-spot.
HOW LONG SHOULD SEX LAST?:
    Cackling hen parties joking, somewhat cruelly, about how ‘he didn’t last two minutes’ may have led to some anxiety about the duration of sexyfuntime. Oh poor Penis, he has so much to worry about. As mentioned before, sex is VERY EXCITING, sometimes you might get over excited and cum quite quickly. It happens.
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    If you finish first, it’s no biggy – focus on finishing your partner.
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    We already talked about how using a thicker condom will reduce sensitivity, but I don’t think guys should be overly worried. The good news is, even if you do cum quickly, after a little rest you can do it all over again.
    Like an all-you-can-eat buffet of sex, intercourse should be a delicious mixture of snacks and feasts. Sometimes a three minute, explosive session is megahot, while on other occasions a more considered, lazy afternoon in the sack is called for. This comes back to what we said about foreplay. Actual intercourse shouldn’t really last for much more than ten–fifteen minutes TOPS. Everyone would start to chafe and it is quite tiring, y’know. BUT with loads of nice foreplay, the experience will last longer and the cackling hen party will have nothing to taunt.
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    Don’t forget the ‘after’ bit. Cuddles and kisses followed by cups of tea and/or bacon sandwiches will make your partner feel valued.
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HOW TO TAKE OFF A BRA

CAN YOU HAVE SEX IF A GIRL IS ON HER PERIOD?
    Yes. In this case red signals ‘go’. HOWEVER, there are things to consider: If a woman is about to get her period, she may be feeling a bit CRAP. She may have painful headaches and stomach cramps, which can continue throughout her period, so she may not want to have sex. Also, be aware that a woman CAN still get pregnant, even during her period, as the next egg may well have been released. Women are also MORE vulnerable to STIs during this time as the cervix wall is weakened. Sex on a period is also likely to be messy, but then as you will be WEARING A CONDOM that will make it easier to clean up!
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    ‘Check your privilege’ – we’ll never know what it’s