she?â He shakes his head and smiles.
âShe seems nice, I guess,â I say, already wondering if sheâs asked him to tell me I should stop visiting Mr. Sands so much.
âWell good, Iâm glad you think so, because Iâd like you to start spending some time with her when youâre here too.â
âBut . . .â What? No! âWhy?â I say as coolly as I can.
âIâve worked here quite a while now, Grace, and Iâve found that there are just a few illnesses that are harder to deal with than others. I think Lou Gehrigâs disease is one of them, not only because of the way it debilitates the sufferer, but because of the toll on the personâs family too. Thatâs why if I can find a way to make the care-giverâs life a little better, I try to.â
âOkay . . . but why do you want me to visit with Mrs. Sands?â
âBecause, Grace,â Jeff says, smiling and shaking his head, âI think youâd help make her life better.â
âNo, but really, why?â
âI am completely serious.â He laughs. âIâm sure sheâd like your company and I think youâd be a real lifeline to her. Thatâs why Iâm asking you to embrace the friction.â
â Huh ?â I recoil.
âWarrior slang.â Jeff nods. âWhen a commanding officer tells his troops to âembrace the frictionâ or âembrace the suck,â heâs saying that he understands the situation heâs sending them into is tough, but he needs them to march forward and do their jobs anyway.â
I bite my lip. Ordinarily, spending time with a resident whoâs healthy and happy to take care of herself is the kind of assignment everyone here wants. Basically those are the people who donât want you to do anything for them. They see it as a point of pride to do everything themselves, so you wind up doing way less than youâre supposed to. Play your cards right and they even bake stuff for you. But especially after my last conversation with Mr. Sands, I donât want to be disloyal to him. I donât want him to think Iâm âcheatingâ on him. Especially not with his wife.
âWell, when I met her she seemed like she was handling things pretty well. And Iâll bet sheâs the kind of woman who has tons of friends around here. So Iâm sure she wouldnât want someone like me hanging around and bothering her.â
âGrace, I think youâll be able to give her a certain amount of comfort that no one else here can.â
âHow?â
âGo to her, Grace, talk to her.â
âAbout what?â I shrug with great exaggeration.
Jeff gives one of his easy smiles. âAbout anything you want. Whatever feels right. Okay?â
âIâm not sureââ
âIâm not asking you to clean bedpans, Grace.â And with that, Jeff rises and points me to the door. âI think youâll find Mrs. Sands in her unit on Jane Lane right now. You know, youâre earning some serious karma points here.â
âGreat,â I say as I leave the office wondering if she knows that her husband had slipped me an envelope of pills. âIâm sure I can use them.â
I walk out of the main building of Hanover House and head for the cottages. Thereâs definitely a different feeling around these little places than in the main building. Theyâre built to look like bungalows, and theyâd be a cool place to liveâif only they werenât on the grounds of a retirement community. I look up to the sky, which is a beautiful shade of blue and full of cotton-ball clouds. âWhat is the point to this? And what exactly am I supposed to do here?â Though I asked Jeff similar questions, I wasnât satisfied (or happy) with his answers. And even though no further response seems to be coming, I still canât help asking another: â Why