things he doesnât tell you.â
She looked down. âMomma loves you more, and now, with new children, sheâll love me even less,â she said. âThere wonât be enough love to share, and I donât want to share.â
âA parent doesnât love one of his or her children more than the others.â
She looked at me strangely. I must admit that it was the first time she had ever looked at me like this. It was disturbing, because it was the look of someone who believed I was either lying to myself or completely fooled. I didnât think she was capable of seeing through my words. Of course, our mother loved me better and always would. She depended on me more. But I wasnât going to admit that to Cathy. She would be even more miserable and say hurtful things to our mother.
How intensely she could glare back at me, though. No one else could make me look away.
âJust think about what I said and see if you can be nicer,â I told her, and left.
She was right to give me that look, of course. Maybe Daddy loved her as much as or a little more than he loved me, but he respected me more and always would.
Knowing that and writing it will help me sleep better tonight.
Christopherâs words resurrected old memories. I had often wondered why my parents didnât have another child. I never asked my mother about it, but I did ask my father once, and all he said was a cryptic âIt wasnât in the cards.â
I imagined Christopher being here with me right now and my turning to him to ask him to explain what my father had meant.
Heâd surely shrug as if there was no mystery, but I had heard my father say that when I was just ten. I wouldnât shrug. Maybe I was more like Cathy than like him.
âThere must have been some physiological reason your mother didnât have another child,â he would tell me. âMen and women usually donât feel comfortable talking about it, because one or the other was unable to make it work. Understand?â
Yes, I understood. I understood years later but never brought it up again for exactly the reason my imaginary Christopher was citing. If there was one thing I would never want to do, it was make my father feel uncomfortable about anything, least of all himself.
Still, after reading some of what went on between Christopher and Cathy and anticipating how their lives were about to change when the twins were born, I couldnât help wondering what my life would have been like if I had a younger sister or brother, or even an older sister or brother.
Cathy was obviously afraid that her parents wouldnât have enough love for that many children and that she would suffer the most. Reading between Christopherâs comments, I realized she must have felt inferior even at that young age, inferior in the sense that she could see or feel that her mother loved her brother more and that her father held her brother in higher esteem. Both depended on him. She was still too young to be anything more than someone who needed care.
What is our capacity to love? I wondered. Does amother who has six or even ten children love each of them equally or as much as someone who had only one child? Was that even possible? Was Cathy really so wrong to be afraid and upset?
âHello, up there!â I heard Dad shout. I looked at the clock and leaped out of bed. It was way past time for me to set the table. When I appeared at the top of the stairs, he looked up at me and just shook his head, walking off. I hurried down.
âSorry,â I called, and headed to the dining room to unfold the tablecloth.
âDonât you have any homework for Monday?â Dad asked when I came into the kitchen to get the dishes and silverware. âSomething else to read or do?â
âIâll do it tomorrow,â I said. âI donât have that much. I always stay a little ahead, Dad. You know that.â
âUm,â he said. He