his
hand
in
his
pocket
and
finds
there
something
that
inexorably
draws
him
back
to
his
own
place
in
time.
It
is
a
penny
of
his
era,
if
I
recall
right.
Well,
when
I
read
that,
I
thought
about
this
point
in
the
orgasm
cycle,
and
how
some
guys
actually
grab
onto
things
to
avoid
leaving,
to
be
brought
back
to
the
reality
they
are
being
kicked
out
of
by
their
pleasure.
Grab
a
bedpost,
grab
your
partner.
These
are
ways
to
thrust
out
of
yourself
these
echoes
and
regain
contact
with
the
surrounding.
Some
guys
just
go
rigid
for
a
second
and
then
start
moving,
or
talking
and
it
can
have
that
almost
manic
feel
to
it.
Talking
is
a
good
one
because
it
brings
you
back,
but
not
in
too
harsh
a
way.”
“This
is
amazing,”
she
said
dreamily,
“I
had
no
idea.”
“Had
you
never
observed
anything?
I
mean
don’t
we
tend
to
look
a
little
weird
right
after
the
act?”
“Well,
sure!
But
how
was
I
supposed
to
know?”
“Oh,
of
course,
Catherine.
That’s
not
what
I
meant
to
imply.
Clearly
we
men
do
not
speak
about
such
things.”
“Well,
you
do!”
“True,
but
that’s
because
I
find
it
amusing.
It’s
very
iconoclastic
of
me,
really,
and
that
is
undoubtedly
a
big
part
of
the
appeal.
I
think
you’ll
agree
once
we
are
done
that
the
notion
of
a
man
divulging
to
a
woman
the
secrets
of
a
man’s
pleasure
could
be
perceived
by
other
males
as
an
unforgivable
act
of
betrayal.”
“It’s
not
betrayal.
I’m
just
starting
to
understand
something
I
have
been
a
witness
to
for
years
and
always
kind
of
bothered
me.
I
mean,
do
you
have
any
idea
what
goes
through
a
woman’s
head
when
she
has
just
given
her
husband
an
orgasm
and
he
just
lays
there
as
if
you
didn’t
even
exist,
doesn’t
want
to
talk
to
you.
Either
that,
or
he
just
gets
up
and
starts
talking
like
nothing
even
happened.”
“When
in
truth,
it’s
still
happening.
It’s
quite
a
conundrum,
you
know.
To
fully
revel
in
the
pleasure
you
have
given,
we
must
be
absent
from
you.
To
not
do
so
means
squashing
the
pleasure
mid-‐course.
It’s
like
a
built-‐in
misunderstanding,
a
cruel
irony:
it’s
not
that
a
man
is
self-‐centered
in
his
pleasure
but
that
a
man’s
pleasure
is
self-‐centered.”
For
many
days,
Catherine
found
her
mind
drifting
back
endlessly
to
this
conversation.
In
fact,
it
was
a
bit
of
a
reality
check
when
one
morning
in
a
rather
unusual
non-‐sequitur
her
husband
asked
“We’re
not
having
any
more
kids,
right?”
seemingly
wanting
to
dispel
any
fears
that
the
recent
marked
increase