side.
This is it. Iâm leaving.
And there was nothing to mark it. Not so much as a significant look passed between Rhys and I. Maybe this is how it always is. It feels like something more formal should be required: an official handshake, a splitting up ceremony, a certificate. As Rhys said, is this all itâs worth, after thirteen years?
12
Caroline eventually breaks the waterlogged silence in the front of the Audi.
âI was wrong about buying straight away. Maybe Mindy is right and this ⦠interlude is exactly what you need.â
âThanks. I thought you were saying Mindyâs judgement is dubious?â
âNot always.â
I know theyâll have discussed me, worried about me, and thereâs a question that I canât put off asking any longer.
âDo you all think Iâm making a massive mistake?â
Thereâs a tense pause.
âThere isnât an âallââ¦â
âOh, God.â I put a hand over my face. âThree different types of disapproval.â
âItâs not disapproval, youâre thirty-one. Itâs not for us or anyone else to say whatâs right for you. I suppose I was surprised you didnât mention any problems before, thatâs all.â
âI didnât want to talk behind Rhysâs back. I wasnât sure how I felt, truth be told. I was being carried along by the wedding planning and then he was being a shit about it and it came tumbling out and there it was.â
âIt wasnât worth giving him a shape-up-or-ship-out? You never put your foot down enough, in my opinion, and it mightâve led to ⦠laziness.â
âI did try suggesting a counsellor or whatever. He wasnât interested.â
âI doubt he wanted to lose you. Heâs stubborn â¦â
âYou canât ask someone not to be who they are. Thatâs where we were.â
âCouldnât you ⦠if youâd â¦â
âCaro, please. I canât do this now. I will do soon, over wine, for hours. We can thrash the whole thing out until youâre sick of hearing about it. But not now.â
âSorry.â
âItâs fine. Letâs talk about something else.â
Hmm. Not sure when this âsoonâ will arrive. I possibly want to wait until 2064 when she can put a data stick in her ear and download the information straight into her frontal cortex.
Then on reckless impulse I add: âOh, I saw Ben.â
âBen? Ben from uni? Where? I thought you werenât going to look him up? How was he?â
Iâm grateful that Caroline can only fix her eyes on me momentarily before she has to return them to the road.
âUh, the library. I decided I wanted to learn Italian as part of the New Me, and there he was. We had a coffee. Seems well. Married.â
Caroline snorts. âHah! Well he was
bound
to be. Anyone as attractive and house-trainable as that gets snapped up mid-twenties, latest.â
âAnyone decentâs married by now?â
Caroline realises what sheâs said and grimaces. âNo! I mean, men like him are. There are more good women than men, so supply and demand dictates his sort are long gone off the market.â
âDoesnât bode well for my prospects in finding someone then.â
Caroline is crunching the gears, and looks like an Egyptian terracotta head I once saw in the British Museum. âI didnât mean ⦠oh, you know â¦â
âDonât worry,â I say, âI agree with you. Ben was always going to be married, and maybe choices post-thirty arenât great. The divorces are going to start soon, Iâll pick someone up on their second lap.â
Caroline gives me a laugh thatâs more grateful than amused. âYouâll be fine.â
âMindy and Ivor are still single, and theyâre normal and nice. Well, fairly normal.â
âExactly!â
Iâm not feeling half as