Free I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide by Dorian Solot, Marshall Miller

rub against small rubber balls. Rhesus macaque (a kind of monkey) females sometimes fondle and suck on their own nipples, and stumptail macaques have been seen pulling their own tail between their legs and rubbing it against their labia.
    Lie #7:
    Only lesbians/sluts/bad girls masturbate.
Truth: Let’s set the record straight about what kinds of women commonly masturbate:
○Heterosexual women. Bisexual women. Lesbian women. Women who describe themselves as “none of the above.” Women who say they’re “not homosexual, not heterosexual, just sexual.”
○Women who have lots of sex. Women who’ve never had sex with a partner. Women who wish they were having more partnered sex than they are. Women who aren’t interested in partnered sex.
○Single women. Married women. Dating women. Women who aren’t sure if that person they hook up with sometimes is officially a “relationship” or not.
○Doctors. Dog-walkers. Lawyers. Janitors. Students. At-home moms. Women who don’t have a job.
○Women of every age, race, ethnicity, and religious denomination. Atheists and agnostics, too.
According to The Janus Report, a national sex survey, nine out of ten women over age eighteen have masturbated. And the tenth woman just might give it a try when she gets in the right mood!
    Lie #8
    Women need to be careful not to masturbate too much.
Truth: If a woman is cutting class, not showing up for work, standing up her friends, or avoiding her significant other because she’s too busy self-pleasuring, then she’s overdoing it. Otherwise, there’s nothing to worry about! It’s perfectly fine for women to masturbate every day or several times a day. It’s also fine to masturbate less or not at all. Most women find they go through phases depending on their mood, menstrual cycle, stress level, relationship status, and other factors—there’s no right or wrong frequency when it comes to masturbation. After all, people don’t worry about getting “addicted” to other enjoyable, perfectly healthy pastimes like bowling, knitting, or Googling themselves.
    how do women masturbate?
    TIME AND TIME again, women have told us, “I wanted to masturbate when I was growing up—I just didn’t know how to do it.” One woman said that when she was little, her mom gave her a kid’s book about sexuality. The book said masturbation was healthy and normal, and the girl thought to herself, “Oh, good, now I can finally learn how to do it!” She turned the page expecting to find step-by-step instructions—but the book had already moved on to a new subject.
out with the surgeon general—and with education for girls
IN 1994, A time when AIDS and teen pregnancy were high-profile social issues, U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders made the level-headed recommendation that American children should receive comprehensive age-appropriate sex education that includes information about masturbation. Her statements came under fierce attack and ultimately led to her forced resignation. In news commentary that week, TV host David Brinkley asked why “twelve-year-old boys should be taught skills they already have.” Village Voice columnist Richard Goldstein pointed out in response that if masturbation were discussed in school, girls would learn about it too. The potential to promote female sexual pleasure, he said, was exactly what made the subject so threatening to so many people.
One of my friends asked me what masturbation was freshman year. I remember being really surprised that she didn’t know, but in all honesty I wasn’t 100 percent clear about the details myself.
In middle school and high school I masturbated by insertion and I never achieved orgasm. It wasn’t until college that I discovered my clitoris and orgasm. I think this was all due to lack of information on the subject.
I wanted to masturbate but had no idea how to. It wasn’t until after I got to college and had the privacy of my own computer to find websites geared towards women