night. Also, he gives great massages and always texts back. But you know how it is, I just see him as a friend and vice versa. Maybe this is because of his name, Platonic NickâÂhe is cursed in this sense. I think weâre both kind of lonely, so we turn to each other for distractionâÂof the nonsexual kind.
I am actually beginning to like New York again. Now that Iâm not on the Upper East Side and am dividing my time between Brooklyn and Chelsea instead, itâs gorgeous and all the things people always say it is. I spent yesterday afternoon at the New York Public Library, which made me think of Joan Didion, and which really struck a chord with meâÂit really is set up like a cathedral for books. It was beautiful, and I got a lot of good writing done.
Point being, though, I was in Midtown during the holiday season and it didnât make me hate the city.
Iâve been staying in a lot lately, and not just because itâs been bitterly cold. My new resolution is to save money, and so Iâve stopped going out. I donât want to be in a position where I canât afford to leave this job or even this city. So Iâve been spending my time running a lotâÂas much as I can out in the cold (scary because no health insurance for the first three monthsâÂso if I break a leg getting hit by a bus, itâs just going to have to stay that way) and writing as much as I can. Itâs hard. Working all day takes it out of me.
I still canât help thinking: Is this the best life I could have? I miss having the time to mull over ideas for stories and to actually write. Tomorrow, the plan is to get up early to go to Café Angelique (the good one at 49 Grove, NOT the bad one at 68 Bleecker) and write before I go to work.
In only a few weeks Iâll be in Wisconsin for Christmas, riding horses with my sister and pretending that we are the girls from Sense and Sensibility (donât you dare judge me, hillbilly kisser).
Iâm glad itâs almost Christmas break. Iâm going to keep running when I get home to Wisconsin. Right now, Iâm going to read O magazine, which my mother sent me, because apparently I am forty.
WRITE BACK.
I LOVE YOU. And capital letters.
Love,
Dimples
P.S. What does a four-Âyear-Âold carry in a purse? Crayons? Lipstick?
DECEMBER 17
Jess to Rachel
I canât move my knees. I just Googled âdelayed-Âonset ski paralysis,â but it turns out this is not a thing. Sometimes Google is blocked here, sometimes not. YOU NEVER KNOW. One time I urgently needed to know how to kill a spider without looking at it and the Internet refused to tell me. I still donât know!
Last night I returned from a skiing trip with Astrid and some of her coworkers. We drove a few hours away from Beijing, but the snow is artificial (itâs not naturally very snowy near Beijing, but why let a good mountain go to waste?).
Learn from my mistakes: Do not ever give into snow sports peer pressure OR take your first snowboarding lesson in Mandarin without first taking a Mandarin lesson in snowboarding vocabulary. All I remember is being near tears halfway down the mountain with my Chinese instructor (the only word she could say in English was âNoâ), looking down, and picking out which pile of fake snow I would prefer to die in because anything was better than continuing to try to snowboard. Luckily, I made it down the mountain alive, but I never went back up again.
Invigorated by near-Âdeath, telling Astrid I wanted to move out didnât seem like such a big deal. I think she had been sensing my growing unhappiness, and at dinner that night I finally just told her how I felt and that it will be better for our friendship in the long run if we lived separately. And actually, she didnât freak the fuck out. She agreed, and seemed to take it really well, until a few glasses of wine later, when her eyes filled with
Tim Lahaye, Jerry B. Jenkins